Email probles "The recipient server did not accept our requests to connec"

I made fresh installation debian-7.0-x86_64-v4 + Direct Admin
The thing is that when i creat some gmail acc i am able to tướng send emails to tướng all emails (gmail, yahoo etc) but i can receive only emails from acc i created on VPS. When i send from external box it return:

This is an automatically generated Delivery Status Notification

THIS IS A WARNING MESSAGE ONLY.

YOU DO NOT NEED TO RESEND YOUR MESSAGE.

Delivery to tướng the following recipient has been delayed:

     [email protected]

Message will be retried for 1 more day(s)

Technical details of temporary failure:
The recipient server did not accept our requests to tướng connect. Learn more at http://support.google.com/mail/bin/answer.py?answer=7720
[(0) fotoheb.pl. [91.196.48.233]:25: socket error]

----- Original message -----

DKIM-Signature: v=1; a=rsa-sha256; c=relaxed/relaxed;
        d=gmail.com; s=20120113;
        h=mime-version:date:message-id:subject:from:to:content-type;
        bh=3zR3ZNfYk1D4q5xThUcAPqxtZb+ewN73CjbgpGyE2P8=;
        b=mj3DUKTPMadOQ3snab9WYezP0ZyIQJz3eMvYRu97QvVKpZ0HQHNaAlLQAOaThrZ9Ei
         Hbrxr+W9I55/x1qAff3Za6/Kg8U7j+MiyiWrSQxE0u7OKTAVMMeqhFUvV7iKCinYw6XW
         KkUAYnVp3J4y4UDZmnYgjEpQhDjHv2XpfzdhnlaCpJ4L3nTREAAXhlP5zxSYvx+ZC2ic
         OfukO+nzjHYDK5ck3p01ySyZMwkVUYgv3DQwhaOA1GFfyHMbCNcmt84JM2MxI2FD0BYG
         vZRK/OvDc9Uk79FN+S47WgERjaUm7EK5oNe5GtGdz/cTyZXluAAE1j4MCWSD8QgCSk4x
         QulQ==
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Date: Fri, 6 Feb năm ngoái 14:53:57 +0100
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Subject: test
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this is clean Debian + DA
VPS provider says he don't block port 25

But when i install debian 7.0 + VestaCP gmail works. So it looks lượt thích it is problem in DA.
It is Clean Installation.
I did reinstall and same thing happens.
Any idea?

no one have any idea what can be problem?

answer says

The other tên miền doesn't have up-to-date MX records or is otherwise misconfigured.
The other tên miền is blacklisting or graylisting messages from Gmail.
The other tên miền has temporary networking problems.

but MX are mix http://www.intodns.com/fotoheb.pl

than "The other tên miền is blacklisting or graylisting messages from Gmail"
also not true because mặc định installation of DA don't have any spam filter

and 3rd "The other tên miền has temporary networking problems."
also not true in this case because VPS all the time is working.

Try sending an gmail to tướng your own tài khoản at gmail. does it get there? If sánh, can you reply to tướng it?

This will help narrow down your problem.

Jeff

but MX record are set
DA not have anty spamm mix sánh it is not blacklisting or graylisting messages from Gmail
and VPS no have Internet connection problems
any other idea?

My only answer right now would be to tướng tự what I've already suggested and let us know the result.

Jeff

@Jeff
"My only answer right now would be to tướng tự what I've already suggested and let us know the result."
but what you suggested?? I don't see any other your post here

can you tell bủ what you suggested?

The mô tả tìm kiếm of the problem is in the email: https://support.google.com/mail/answer/7720

this is not an answer
because as i said
I have MX records
i don't have problem with Internet connection
and i don't have antyspamm sánh I'm not blacklisting or graylisting messages from Gmail or any other gmail.